| His daddy dated me,
yet the son wants to marry me (III)
Off-Day Dating:By
BOLANIRAN OMOKOREDE,08028070065
Saturday, July
5, 2008
You are welcome to the last lap of this story you have been
enjoying for the past three weeks consecutively. There have
been different responses from readers regarding what individuals
think Celine should do. You will remember that last episode
hanged on the note that Celine was not ready to forgo the
offer of N3m that chief proposed against pastor’s counsel.
Come along as we go this week’s journey to know what
exactly ends up Celine story.
“…Ah, that will not hold pastor. It is either
I collect the money or I continue with James,” I said
with ire.
I left pastor’s office in disappointment. I wonder how
a man can tell me to forget such offer that will give me a
new beginning and better life in my new location. Left to
me I have made up my mind to avoid pastor from that moment,
get the offer and go probably to Port Hacourt to resettle;
leaving my job and cut off James his father and Pastor.
But that night pastor came with his wife, he was aware I was
not ready to give up on my decision to take the money from
chief. They came around 7.00pm and left around 9.30. They
talked and made several references with different testimonies
from some people they have known in the past. I was obstinate
and wanted to do my will despite their counsel and biblical
references. It got to a time something rose in me to send
them out of my house but I just tried to be calm and take
it easy with them and which I did.
Thank God for such few men of God we still have in our society.
Many don’t visit their members, they feel too big to
go to members. To such pastors, it does not dignify when they
visit members but I must confess the pastor and his wife changed
things drastically that night. Though they didn’t have
the assurance that I have agreed with their counsel when they
were leaving my house, they only prayed with me in faith and
commended my heart to the spirit of God. And of course the
spirit of God never allowed me to sleep that night. I was
troubled within and confused. I was just rolling here and
there on my six by six foam I put on the floor in my room.
Even deep into the night, I still found it difficult to sleep,
I thought of many things I can do and at last I decided to
cause trouble and forget about the money.
“If pastor and his wife would not make me take the money
then Chief must not go scot-free”, I thought.
I put on the light and took my pen to write. I decided to
destroy everything that needed to be destroyed and the major
focus was to write to Chief’s wife about all that transpired
between us that made him stand between my marriage with his
son. I knew she may not believe me, she might be thinking
I wanted to blackmail her husband but I had my proof beyond
any doubt that will expose all we did in secret and I had
packaged them all together to unleash the great havoc on the
home Chief was trying to protect.
I finished everything in the night and it was then I had the
opportunity to sleep.
The morning that followed was a miracle. I must confess I
woke up a new person. I just woke to find that those thought
of doing it my way vanished and a certain joy overflowed my
soul; I felt a kind of joy I never experienced in life radiating
in my spirit. I was just smiling and joy I cannot explain
overflowed me uncontrollably. It was like that bitterness
I had within me last night never existed; the experience was
beyond explanation.
I went to pastor to tell him my experience; what I have decided
to do and what happened at daybreak. I later had to destroy
the letter instead of destroying Chief’s home as earlier
decided.
But James would not let me have my rest, my mind was already
off him but he still insisted he must marry me at all cost.
When the pressure was too much that he would travel from Lagos
to meet me in Abuja to appeal to me to change my mind, I inquired
from pastor if I should tell him what had happened between
me and his daddy which was not known to him because I knew
that was the only reason that can make him back out. But pastor
asked that I should not tell him because he would not take
it lightly with his father and that may be tantamount to what
I had earlier planned.
So when Chief called to ask of the account to send the money
he promised; he had then had the assurance I had totally called
off the relationship. I could easily sense his disappointment
and surprise on phone. He was seriously surprised I could
turn down that huge sum of money.
“But Celine why? Why? I am ready to help you! If you
have another man I wouldn’t even mind sponsoring your
marriage, let me send the money it is out of my good mind,”
he insisted.
“Thanks chief for the offer, I am contented. Godliness
with contentment is great gain” I responded with a Bible
passage even though I didn’t know where it is located.
Just exactly five months later, I met Chris. I was with the
pastor in the office when he came for counseling. He was a
Christian from another denomination but only came to seek
counsel regarding one of the ministrations of the pastor he
watched on air. He greeted me and I answered casually and
went out and honestly I did not look at the face that I can
still recognize him but all I could tell was that I noticed
he was fair in complexion.
Pastor could not hold the gist till the next meeting when
I would see him. He sent his son to call me after his several
failed attempts to get in touch on phone.
“Did you notice the young man that came in after you
in the office this afternoon?” he asked.
“Yes sir, but I don’t think I know him…”
I was trying to respond while he cut me.
“Celine, you don’t need to know him you will know
him better very soon. He told me he had seen you twice during
our interdenominational programme he attended and wants to
have your hand in marriage.”
I smiled as if I was hearing issue of marriage and love for
the first time in life and before I uttered any word pastor
have added: “just go and pray about it don’t be
in haste to give answer to such request.” He said and
we closed the meeting for the day.
I was already having a kind of joy within without praying
about it yet. Pastor led me to several praying sessions regarding
the issue and at last I gave my response, then our courtship
started.
Not long, Chris traveled again to UK on official assignment.
He spent three months before he came back to begin planning
for our wedding. We went down to his home town to see his
parents and to my parents too. I am proud to say that God
had vindicated me today, I am married to the right man with
two children.
Why I want everyone to read my story is for ladies to learn
that God can still do same in their lives; for as many ladies
that are still roaming the streets disappointed, having no
hope of marriage, I want to encourage them that God is able
to settle them in His own way.
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