Does kissing my wife break
our fast?
By Shahid gshezada@yahoo.com
Friday
September 28, 2007
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• A consultative meeting between National Hajj
Commission of Nigeria (NAHCON)/Med-View Airlines Ltd
(Official National Carrier for 2007 Hajj) and Tour Operators
was held at Airport Hotel, Ikeja recently. Photo shows
from left, Chairman of the Technical Committee (NAHCON)
Alhaji Abdulsalam Galas, The Commissioner, Dr Yunus
Lanre Badmus, Chief Executive Officer, Med-View Airlines,
Alhaji Muneer Bankole and the Secretary of the Technical
Committee, Dr Abdulwaasih Gabadeen discussing a technical
point.
PHOTO: MOSHOOD RAJI
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I do not fast. Will I be punished on the Day of Resurrection?
Fasting in Ramadan is one of the pillars on which Islam is
built. Allah tells us that He has prescribed it for the believers
of this ummah [nation], as He prescribed it for those who
came before them.
Al-Bukhaari (8) and Muslim (16) narrated that Ibn ‘Umar
(may Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah
(peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Islam
is built on five (pillars): the testimony that there is no
god but Allah and Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah; establishing
prayer; paying zakah; Hajj; and fasting Ramadan."
Whoever does not fast has abandoned one of the pillars of
Islam, and is committing a major sin. Indeed some of the pious
believers were of the view that he is a kaafir [disbeliever]
and apostate – we seek refuge with Allah from that.
Whoever does not fast in Ramadan without being sick or having
any other excuse that allows him not to fast is more evil
than the adulterer or drunkard, indeed they doubted his Islam
and thought that this was heresy.
The brother who asked this question is advised to fear Allah
and to beware of His wrath, vengeance and a painful punishment.
He should hasten to repent to Allah before the destroyer of
pleasures that splits people apart [i.e., death] takes him
unawares. Today there is action and no reckoning, but tomorrow
there will be the reckoning and no action. Note that whoever
repents, Allah will accept his repentance, and whoever draws
closer to Allah one hand span, Allah will draw closer to him
one cubit. For Allah is Most Generous, Forbearing and Most
Merciful.
If you try fasting and find out how easy it is and what comfort
it brings and how close it brings you to Allah, you will never
give it up.
Think about what Allah says at the end of the verses on fasting:
"Allah intends for you ease, and He does not want to
make things difficult for you"[al-Baqarah 2:185]
The phrase, "so that you may be grateful to Him"
shows that fasting is a blessing for which we must give thanks.
Hence some of the pious wished that the whole year was Ramadan.
We ask Allah to help you and guide you, and to open your heart
to that which will bring you happiness in this world and in
the Hereafter.
Two years ago I was diagnosed with ulcerative colitis, which
is an inflammatory disease in the colon causing ulcers to
form in the large intestine. It’s very painful and causes
flare-ups all year round. I was unable to fast during the
last two Ramadan due to the pain and blood loss. I am worried
that this year will be the third year that I may not be able
to fast. I would like to know what a person like me should
do. I have tried fasting on days when I wasn’t going
through a flare-up, but it makes me go to the bathroom more,
which causes my colon to bleed again.
How do I repay for my fasts? And is it sinful for me not to
fast? And how can a sick person get the same amount of reward
of a fasting person in Ramadan?
If one is not able to permanently fast, then only he/she may
give Fidyah (compensation for not fasting).
If a person is ill but hopes to get better, then he/she will
have to make Qadhaa (pay-back) for the missed fast. Giving
Fidyah will not suffice.
I was fasting one day (not in Ramadan). One of my friends
was smoking beside me. That time I just forgot that I was
fasting. The moment I remembered that I was fasting, then
and then I told my friend to stop smoking. After that he stopped
smoking. Was my fast valid?
It is not permissible to smoke during fasting. However, breathing
the air polluted with smoke does not invalidate the fast.
Does kissing my wife and transferring saliva break the fast?
Kissing does not break the fast. However, if one spouse swallows
the saliva of the other, the fast will be nullified. Hence,
kissing, that is, mouth to mouth, is Makrooh (disliked).
Can we still fast if we drank alcohol within the 40 days before
Ramadan
Fasting is Fardh (compulsory), even on an alcoholic. Make
Tawbah (repent) from your drinking and be punctual on your
Salaat and fasting.
My wife missed about 20 days during Ramadan 5 years ago due
to the imminent birth of our child and due to doctor's advice
because it may complicate things. Also, the last 2 years,
she did not fast because she was on her menstrual cycle. Does
she have to make up all the fasts? She does not mind making
them up but she is a weak person and fasting in Ramadan is
already difficult for her. Can we pay for the fasts and feed
the poor instead? Jazakallah
When a person misses a fardh (obligatory) fast, he/she is
required to make this up as soon as possible. (Qadhaa). If
he/she is unable to do so presently, he/she may delay the
Qadhaa until he/she is able to fulfil it. If he/she has a
very limited life expectancy and fears he/she will not be
able to recover sufficiently to make these up before his/her
death, he/she may pay Fidyah, in lieu of each fast, an amount
equivalent to Sadaqatul Fitr. This must be given to someone
deserving of Zakaah.
Your wife's situation does not seem to be so serious. We suggest
that she make up one fast every week. Furthermore, this may
be done in winter when the days are short so as to make it
even easier.
(1) While performing ablution I feel some wetness going down
the throat. After rinsing the mouth I keep on spitting to
make sure nothing is left in the mouth. When washing the face
some water enters the mouth and after spiting out the water
I feel some moisture going down the throat. Does this invalidate
the fast ? I get these feelings every time I perform ablution.
I always try my best to make sure no water goes down the throat.
I had the same problem last year and after ramzan I carried
on fasting for a few days With the intention of qaza. (2)
After using deodorant body spray (non-alcoholic) I felt the
spray/fumes down the throat. This was totally unintentional.
I just used it as normal on any other day without thinking
about the spray going down the throat. The following day before
using the spray I closed my mouth tightly and sprayed very
slowly. After finishing I opened my mouth after a few seconds
and I still felt something go down the throat although it
wasn’t as strong as the first day. Now I have decided
I am never going to use deodorant during fasting hours. Please
tell me if the above broke my fasts ?
Why is it that if somebody eats something by mistake i.e not
realising he is fasting the fast is not broken But when a
few drops of water go down the throat during ablution, which
is totally unintentional, actually breaks the fast.
1. If you are sure that water went down the throat, then the
fast is invalidated. However, if you are in doubt whether
water went down the throat, then your fast is intact.
2. Your fast is valid. You may use body spray during Ramadan.
(Fataawa Mahmoodiyah vol.13 pg.128)
3. Shari’ah has excused a person who eats or drinks
mistakenly. That is the reason why fast is not broken. However,
during Wudhu, it is possible to avoid water from going down
the throat.
What exactly did Prophet Muhammad eat in Ramadan for Iftar,
Sahur and in between?
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