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Peace Nwosu
What? Allow my man sleep with my girl friend and me? What kind of friend would agree to participate in an orgy, sexual frenzy? My man is meant for me and not to be shared with any other woman. In fact, there’s no room for a third party. We all know that three is crowd while two is company. Anyone who does that must be psychologically unstable. Sex is meant for two people and not three. Moreover, it’s for married people who are expected to be mature

Hope Nwankwo
Me share my lover with another woman? That’s not possible. Imagine, so if I were your girl, would you can encourage me to share you with another woman. Ahh, that is too bad now, very immoral. In fact, if I catch my girl friend having sex with my man, I’ll deal with her ruthlessly.

Me? You don’t know me o! I can’t share o. I just can’t do it. I won’t even date a man who’ll be so perverted as to ask my friend to join us in bed. What nonsense? If you don’t know, sex is a very private and confidential thing. Much as it seems that women kind of flaunt the thing now, it still has not lost its sacredness.
No responsible man would do such a thing

Esther Ayeka
No, I can’t do it for one simple reason (laughter). I can’t share my thing with anybody; not even my best friend, period!

Tolu Olonade
God forbid! No way! Sometimes, human beings can be crazy. How can a same woman allow a man sleep with her and her friend? What won’t money do in this our country? Of course, for what other reason, if not money, would a woman debase herself to that extent? Isn’t it crazy to imagine? I cannot allow any man to treat me that way. Sex with my guy is for just the two of us. I’ve not even had enough of him let alone share him with another woman. In fact, any woman that agrees to such arrangement is as evil as the person that suggested it. As a matter of fact, there is even no basis for you to ask me that type of question because I am not in that mould.

Peace Nwosu
What? Allow my man sleep with my girl friend and me? What kind of friend would agree to participate in an orgy, sexual frenzy? My man is meant for me and not to be shared with any other woman. In fact, there’s no room for a third party. We all know that three is crowd while two is company. Anyone who does that must be psychologically unstable. Sex is meant for two people and not three. Moreover, it’s for married people who are expected to be mature.

Princess Ekaun
I can’t do such a crazy thing. It’s bizarre. Come to think of it, if you start allowing your best friend join you when you’re making love with your man, you’re invariably inviting devil into your relationship. What if your man, you know how you people behave, decides that he prefers your friend? Ehn, won’t you end up the loser? No mater how you look at it, it’s a bad adventure. Those that indulge in it are depraved.

Adetoun Ogundiran
No way! I can’t! Lai-lai. I can’t do such a thing. For crying out loud, I’m not a prostitute. Anyone that does it must be pornographic in orientation. If you can have sex with your best friend’s guy while she’s there, then you should be good enough to take up roles in pornographic movies. It’s not just bad; it’s terribly bad. For those who do it, I feel it’s their life and they’re free to live it the way they like. For me, I can’t imagine it.

Tina Amayo
I can’t do it but I have a friend who once did it in my presence. I know it’s hard to believe but it’s the truth. She was with her boyfriend and I was in the same room with them. I was watching the television and they started making love in my presence, right in front of me. I was very shocked. The worst part was that I began to have this funny feeling (laughter). Honestly, I didn’t know that such a thing could arouse somebody. I was really aroused, although I knew that what they were doing wasn’t decent.
It’s really crazy. There is nothing girls would not do in the name of adventure. For me, it is a tragedy, sexually speaking.

Hannah Eferaro
What? Sex is supposed to be an act between two people, and most likely behind closed doors. It’s not something my girl friend should be watching or even participating in. Is it a porn movie? Abeg, it’s crazy to even contemplate such a dirty idea. I can never make love with my boyfriend or husband in the presence of anybody let alone allow her to participate. What are talking about? Have we suddenly become dogs? Even if the guy is my friend’s, not mine, it’s still bad and condemnable. I can’t tolerate it, so why should I be willing to do it to someone else? I know some girls are capable of, and in fact actually indulge in it.

But Oga journalist, have you bothered to find out the type of girls that do it? Ehn, that is what you should do now. I am sure you’ll discover that those girls are most likely to be whores.
A prostitute could decide to have it on the street corner, not minding who is passing by. She doesn’t mind either, if the same man who had just slept with her mounts another woman, her colleague for that matter.

Together, they could seduce a guy to sleep with both of them. They could do it as long as the fee is right. That’s what I’m talking about. It’s called three-some. I’m sure you know that already. I, Eferaro will never share my man with anybody.

Florence Adolor
Of course, I can’t do that type of thing. I’m a very shy person and I can’t do something like that. I just can’t. The fact that my friend is there is enough to extinguish that flame or desire in me. I won’t be able to express myself (laughter). If there’s anyone who can do it, that means they cares less about what people say. For me, I can’t.

Ngozi Fayemi
Why should I? It is not just stupid, it’s crazy. It’s not possible. How can my friend be watching while I’m making love with my man? If she’s crazy enough to be willing to watch, then she won’t hesitate to join. That, my dear, will never happen. If it does, the guy will most likely hop from me to her and end up having us both. Does that sound ok? If you do that, then it’s as good as having a ‘threesome.’ Such things shouldn’t be condoned. I can’t share when it comes to such things. I can’t share my man’s private part with any woman. Sex should be between two people and not three or four. Moreover, it should be done in private, not with your best friend participating. We’re not dogs for crying out loud. I consider those who do it insane.

Jumoke Bakare
I can’t because it is irritating. Why should my best friend be watching my guy and I doing it? My love life isn’t a pornographic movie that anybody can have access to. I know some people really like their friends but what level of friendship can make me open up to the extent of allowing my friend join me in making love to my guy? No matter how close we are, it can’t get to that level. For those who engage in such nasty acts, I’ll advise them to change their ways. How can my friend ever want to watch me having sex? Is she hoping to learn or what?

Effe Omogie
Oga journalist, say the truth, have you done it before (laughter)? Anyway, mine was different. In my own case, my girl friend was there when my guy and I went out of control and did it. Now guess what? After that episode, she actually picked a quarrel with me, for not inviting her to participate, saying that I punished her in vain. Can you imagine that? My brother, women can do unimaginable things these days.