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Toyin Ajibola
Men should be gentle. Let me tell you something, if a man gets too rough with a lady, won’t she probably die? It’s the gentle ones that wear the crown. The gentle ones make it slow and steady and that’s the way it should be.


Udoka Ajoku
Look, let me tell you something, every man must learn to be gentle iduring lovemaking. Why should a man be rough with a woman he claims to be in love with? It’s not right. When it comes to love making with the right person, gentility should be the watchword for any guy who has the interest of his babe at heart. This is the simple truth. Have I made myself clear enough?

Uche Achor
Men should be gentle while handling their women. The truth of the matter is that most men tend to lose control and go crazy when they’re on the verge of downloading. I don’t know where the madness and impatience comes from but they should learn to control themselves at that point because if they fail to do so, they could get rough with the lady and that’s not good. I know it’s not easy but if they put their mind to it, they can.

Joy Dike
My response might not be what you expect. What I feel is that a man should be able to strike a balance such that he won’t be too rough, neither would he be too gentle. Every smart guy who truly loves his woman must be able to discover and stay on that middle ground.

Mrs. Monica G
It goes without saying that a man should be gentle. Of course, so that he doesn’t end up injuring or wounding the woman. Look, if you didn’t know this before, then I’m telling you right now that it is not every lady that likes rough love making.

Chinyere Peters
Men should learn to be gentle because the truth of the matter is that most of them are just too rough. Any normal woman would love her man more if the man is gentle with her. However, that doesn’t mean that he should become a dummy in bed. He should just be gentle but get the job done in a way that the woman would love him.

Gbemi Ajayi
Any how the guy wants it, I dey kampe (laughter). See, some of these so-called gentle lovemaking can be really boring. When one is alive, what stops him or her from being active (laughter again)? You know what I mean!
For me o, whenever you decide to do something, what’s the point pretending? In fact, there should be action before someone sleeps off. Ehn now!

Patience Okong
Which woman wouldn’t prefer gentility to brutality? Men, whether they like it or not, should be gentle in that regard. No man should be in a hurry when when he wants to make love to his woman. It doesn’t bring out the best in the couple.

Esther Dickson
A man should be gentle when making love to his wife. You’ll agree with me that that’s the way it ought to be. I believe the gentle ones are the best. When a man is like that, the woman would be at peace with the man.

Lilian Umunna
Men should handle their women with care because personally, I don’t think being rough makes sex enjoyable for the woman.