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Adoga Adams
A woman should not keep quiet if her man fails to give her sexual satisfaction. She must, however, be careful not to embarrass the man. As long as you love him, then you must not ridicule him. It might not be his fault.

The truth is that not all ladies are crazy enough to look elsewhere for sex if their husband fails to live up to expectations in bed.

The first thing to do is to sit him down and talk to him in a very mature manner. If the man happens to be the type who doesn’t have much strength in bed, we’ll look inwards and work out a solution. Moreover, every mature woman must realise that sex is not food. Sex is not dodo and beans; neither is it pounded yam and Egusi soup.

A woman must be able to cope if faced with such a situation. She should concentrate more on her work and kids. Moreover, some men work so hard and are too tired to live up to the woman’s expectations at night.

Oluwatoyin Adio
Ah! Of course she should. It’s only natural for her to want her husband to satisfy her sexually. If the man is not strong enough to satisfy her, she has to be a bit patient and do everything she can till the man gets into the right frame of mind to give her what she wants. Moreover, it is not all the time that a man is in the mood for sex.

Jennifer Samuel
It’s the most natural thing for any woman to ask for. She’s supposed to complain to the man so that he would need to know that he’s not the only one who ought to enjoy the act of love-making. I’ll tell only people I need to tell-people who are mature enough to offer me the help I need. That’s the way to go about it. If for any reason, I realise that the man is the type who hasn’t got the strength to deliver to my satisfaction, I’ll still complain to him. I don’t have to be rude about. You must respect his feelings as well. It’s not as if I’ll tell everybody about it o. My mum is the only person whom I’ll talk to in such a situation.

Blessing Ben
Why should a woman keep quiet under such a circumstance? I’ll call the man, sit him down and ask him questions like: ‘Wetin happen?’ I’ll tell him to find a solution before any other thing happens. That one na curse o. It’s a tough corner to be boxed into but by pulling the right strings, a woman should be able to steer her husband to the right path. It’s important that he satisfies me so that I don’t seek sexual satisfaction in wrong places. That’s one of the reasons why he married me in the first place. Look, if he satisfies me, I’ll even say a big thank darling you right into his ears.

Toyinbo
A woman must learn to be patient with her man no matter what happens. She must understand that no matter the brick wall, things can’t remain that way forever. If they work together and put their heads together, they’ll realise that there’s an easy way out. If the man happens to be the type that can’t cope with his wife’s sexual demands, then the lady has the right to ask for more. Every woman deserves to be happy.

Onibalusi Yinka
She has every right to ask for more but she has to respect the fact that he’s her husband and must give him the respect he deserves. It’s very important for her to bear that in mind when she wants to raise the issue of more sex. No matter what happens, she must call the man’s attention to it. They’re married now so there’s no going back. It’s his responsibility to make you happy and feel like a woman. Different factors could make a man to perform below the average. He might be the shy type. He might even have pile or something like that. They must sit together and iron it out so that both parties will enjoy the marriage the way they should. Sex is very important in any marriage. If your husband doesn’t touch you for a week, you should complain. Yes, of course! Marriage is not a one-day affair. He has no reason to shirk his duties. There’s no need to tell any friend or third party because that is a wrong move that could kill your marriage. Even your pastor doesn’t have to know. Wives should learn to say a big NO to third party. I’m advising all these young couples to take their marriages seriously.

Grace Chime
The woman must remember that she has already taken the ‘for better-for worse’ vow. She can complain to her husband but should never fall into the error of telling an outsider. She can ask for more from her husband. You’re asking me what she should do if her husband is the lazy type (Laughs). Well, as a man of the house, he’s supposed to satisfy the woman. I would rather seek God’s attention because I’m scared of these herbal medications. What if he uses the drugs, starts and never gets tired. Isn’t that another chapter of trouble?

Alice Babalola
Any woman in that kind of situation should summon courage and ask for more. You must complain to him in a nice way. The man might have areas where he is weak. They should seek these areas and work on them. There’s no need to pack out or divorce him. Things can always be worked out.