Will estate to your man?
By
Samod Biobaku
Sunday, October 21, 2007
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Mrs. Omolara
famakinwa
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Francisca Chukwuedo
To will my own estate to my husband? Yes, I can do it. Why
not? Remember that when we were being joined together in Holy
matrimony, we became one and agreed to share everything including
our problems, joy and property. As a result of the love between
us, we agreed to share everything. I know that some women
out there are bound to say no. Those who say no are making
it very clear that they’re insecure and don’t
know the man they got married to. It obviously means that
such a woman doesn’t love her husband. Once I love and
trust my husband, I will do it. Remember that what belongs
to me also belongs to him and vice versa.
Joy Monye
Of course I can. As long as my husband has proven himself
to be trustworthy, he deserves it. I know it’s a risky
thing to do considering the peculiar tendency of men to be
unfaithful, I believe my own man will be mine and mine alone.
My husband will be different from other men; even if I own
an airline, I won’t hesitate to will it to him.
Jane Ihenachor
If the love, understanding and trustworthiness are there,
I can do it. I won’t be scared because he also shares
his own things with me. Let me however make it very clear
here that for me to will my estate to my husband, he has to
be ready to will his own property to me as well. I don’t
expect him to hesitate after all; it’s not as if he
has any ulterior motives.
Rosemary John
For me to have agreed to marry him then I must really love
him. I love him but I can’t will my estate to him. He
has to understand. What if after I will it to him, he starts
misbehaving? Who would I turn to? I’ll trust my husband
and be ready to sacrifice for him but I don’t expect
him to want me to begin to will my property to him. I should
trust him as I said earlier but not to that extent. I’ll
rather will my estate to my children and family. That’s
a wiser way to do it.
Mrs. Omolara famakinwa
No! I can’t will my estate to my husband. I’ll
rather will it to my children. I can’t will my estate
to my husband because naturally, I should will it to my children.
Moreover, we all know men have their peculiarities.
Simbiat Ojolowo
If I have children of my own, then I should naturally will
a property of that magnitude to them. I however don’t
have children yet so I’ll will it to my man in the meantime.
However, as soon as the kids start coming in, there’s
gonna be a change of direction. I love my husband but for
some inexplicable reasons, my guts tell me I should love my
children more. Our children have a great tendency to outlive
both my husband and I. I’m sure he feels the same way
about his property and will.
Tolani Ishola
No! It’s my children that I’ll will it to. If
I die before him, there’s a very high tendency for him
to marry another woman. I’ll therefore will the estate
to my children. I love my man but he shouldn’t expect
me to begin willing my things to him. That’s wrong and
I don’t expect him to will anything to me either. It’s
very wrong.
Shola Kasali
I can’t will my estate to my husband. I’ll rather
will it to my first son or first daughter. I can’t will
it to my husband. A woman shouldn’t love a man to that
extent. My estate? Men can sometimes be very terrible. If
I will my estate to him and I die, he’ll certainly bring
another woman into the estate. I’ll be dead and the
woman will be reaping where she did not sow. If I don’t
have children to will the estate to, I’ll will it to
my relatives.
Oluwafunmilayo Oshineye
No way! Willing my estate to my husband would be a wrong decision.
I will love him but not that type of love. What kind of love
would drive me to will my estate to my husband? My children
are the ones who should inherit my estate and not my husband.
I’m not saying I won’t will anything in his name
o. It’s just that the willing would be on a 30%-70%
thing. While 70% of my property would be willed to my children,
the remaining 30% would go to my husband. That’s the
way it should be and not entirely to my husband.
Ife Ogunbanjo
No I can’t. I’d rather will my estate to my son
and his brothers and sisters. It’s not that I don’t
love my husband but you’ll have to agree with me that
men are wicked. After I die, he would most likely bring in
another woman into the estate. That’s not bad but what
if the woman is the wicked one who decides to chase my children
out of the estate that should have been rightfully theirs.
If I don’t have kids, I’d rather will the estate
to my relatives and the motherless babies’ home.
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