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Kehinde Adekunle
You mean allowing my man to have sex with me on the beach? It’s not possible. I will never be comfortable with such an arrangement. How can I have sex in such a place? Look, I can’t do it there under any circumstance whatsoever. Not even if there’s a hut there. It’s something I just can’t do. That’s not my idea of having a nice time. I don’t know about you o, but as for me, no way.

Peace Etuokwu
I can never do something as crazy as having sex on the beach. No matter the level of love I have for the guy involved. I can’t love a guy to the extent of allowing him make love to me on the beach. I won’t agree to do a thing like that. It’s a public place for crying out loud. Have I even allowed him to do it in the bedroom? Please count me out. Whether he’s my boyfriend or husband, I can’t sleep with him at the beach. It’s very embarrassing. I know there are some ladies out there who can do it but we’re all different. As for me, I can’t do it.

Favour Okafor
Let me tell you what I really feel. If the guy involved is my husband and we’re in a hut on the beach, I might do it if the mood is right. If, however, the guy we’re talking about is my boyfriend, I’m sorry to say this, but he’s completely on his own. I can only do that with a guy I’m married to and the place has to be covered. There are ladies who will tell you that they can’t do it. I believe it’s a matter of individuality. We’re all very different from one another and as such, we tend to behave differently as well.

Blessing Omozjie
No I can’t do it. Seriously speaking, I feel it’s not fair for any man to have sex with a woman he claims to love in such a place. Such things are not meant to be done in public places. For those who do it, I’m sure that’s their own way of doing such things.

Sandra Michael
I can’t do it o. I can’t love a guy to that extent. How can I love a man to the extent of allowing him lay me on the beach. I can’t do that sort of thing. It’s very wrong to do. No matter how much I love him, I just can’t do it. It’s very embarrassing. I can’t expose myself to that level of indecency. As long as it’s in the open beach; sand and all, I can never. The only situation that make me allow my sweetheart make love to me on the beach is if there’re well covered huts there. If it’s not open to prying eyes, then I might consider it but to do it on the open beach, never. Love can’t intoxicate me to that level. If I ever agree to do it in the open like that, then I’m as good as mad.

Bukola Adelowo
No. Why should I do that kind of thing at the beach? If my man brings up that kind of idea, I’ll tell him to calm down and let him realize we can have sex when we get to cooler grounds like home. Sex is not something to be done in such places. The beach is not right for doing things like that. Even if there are tents, I still can’t do it. For those who do it, that’s probably their own way of expressing their level of love, commitment and understanding to each other. I’m sorry but my man will have to wait till we get off the beach because as long as we’re there, it won’t happen.

Bukky Sholuwade
No way. I can’t do it because I think it’s a very naughty thing to do. Moreover, I know that the guy I’m in love with will never demand something like that from me. For those who do it, it’s their life and they can live it the way they like. They feel they can do it and that’s why they feel comfortable doing things like that.

Tolu Ogunboyo
Never! I will never do something like that because we all know that the beach is a public place. We can kiss, neck, smooch and romance but sex, count me out. I’ll never allow myself get carried away if on the beach with my sweetheart. The beach is a place to catch fun and not a bedroom. It’s high time men realize the difference between having fun and making love.

Hannah Eferaro
I can’t do it because I don’t like the idea at all. It’s not a mature thing to do. We kiss and get very close but I’ll make him realize we shouldn’t have sex on the beach. When he has that in mind, he won’t pressurize me to do something as bizarre as making love on the beach. Moreover, as I said earlier, it’s not a mature thing to do. My sweetheart is very mature so I doubt if he’ll ever suggest that kind of thing on the beach. I’ll always try and remain in control of myself. The bottom line is that I can’t do it at a beach.

Joke Fayemi
I can’t do it o. Sex on the beach? How bizarre. I can’t do it because it’s not decent at all. I can’t even imagine it. It’s absolutely uncalled for.

Adeoti Oduwole
No. For what? It’s something we can still do at home if he’s patient enough to wait. I won’t agree to do something like that on the beach o. Not even if there’s a well covered hut or tent. I just can’t do it. Sex is not meant for places like that.

Seyi Sule
No I can’t. It’s not proper because a beach is a public place. Such places aren’t meant for sex. One thing I want you to realize is that in this world, there are different kinds of people. I’m saying this because I’m certain there are people out there who can actually do it.

Tunrayo Emmanuel
I can do it and the element that will drive me to do that is the love I have for him. You must however realize that I’ve never done it before. If my feelings for him are that strong, I can do it. However, on his part, there has to be a great level of commitment. As long as I’m convinced that the guy is worth it, why not? If I really love him, I can do it even on the open sand but it’ll be better if it’s dark. The important thing is that I love the guy in question. Once I really love him, I can. Some might feel too shy to pull a stunt like that but I can.

Babington
I’ve never done it before o but I thin k having sex on the beach will be a sweet thing. It’s okay because the thought of it is actually romantic. The water is blue and cool and the wind soothes the nerves. I’ll kiss him (Mmmmaaahhh). It’s something I can do over and over again as long as the guy is the special man in my life. As I mentioned before, I’ve not done it before but if my sweetheart asks me, I can. I must however make it very clear that I can’t do such a thing on these our dirty Naija beaches o.

Temitope Onifade
I can do it but certain things must be in place. One of such things is a hut that can conceal the presence of people within it. As long as that can be guaranteed, I can go all the way with him. As long as the guy is adventurous enough to ask for it nicely, I can give it to him. As long as people won’t be able to see what we’re doing inside the hut or tent, I can.

Lolade Oginni
I can do it but the place has to be right and the guy must also be the right guy. It has to be somebody I love. You can’t expect me to do a thing like that on any of these yeye beaches like Kuramo, Alpha and the rest of them. For example, there’s a beach in Badagry called Whistling Palms. That’s a good example of a place where I can do something like that. It’s cool, clean and lovely. Of course, a lot of ladies will tell you they can’t do stuff like that. Some genuinely can’t do it while some are just pretenders.