Practice oral sex?
By Samod Biobaku & Modupe Okanlawon
Sunday,
April 20, 2008
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Elizabeth Omoruyi
If we are not married then it is wrong because it is as good
as having real sex. However, if we are married, he has the
visa to do whatever he desires. He can log on to any website
within me. We must however be reasonable in all we do.
Faith Okhade
Oral sex? Hm! With who? Let me be very frank with you, I would
have loved to say yes but knowing our society, I can’t.
If I say yes, there are a lot of people who would criticize
me. Otherwise, doing it with someone I love won’t be
a bad idea. That does not mean I would do it o! Do not get
me wrong because I don’t want anybody calling me names
or branding me something.
Oritoke Ademola
Well, as far as I’m concerned, there’s a whole
lot wrong in having oral sex. It’s not ideal. I know
myself very well and I know I can never enjoy that kind of
sex. Haba, how can I put that thing in my mouth? I know some
people do it but I can’t. Aren’t there other ways
of having sex? Must it be that way? I don’t care if
the guy likes it or not because if he truly loves me, there’s
no way he would like something I dislike.
Ada Obishili
See this guy o! The truth of the matter is that we’re
all different people. As the saying goes, one man’s
meat is another’s poison (laughter). For me, I just
can’t handle that kind of thing. For those who do it,
it means they obviously enjoy it otherwise, they won’t
be doing it. Let’s be frank here; no pretence. If the
guy is clean, it might be done if he does the right things
but if not, I would gladly advise all chics to desist from
it. I know a guy who confessed to me that he had oral sex
with his girlfriend saying the girl was very clean.
Omolara Alawiye
For ladies who engage in oral sex, I’m sure they strongly
believe they are giving their guys the best in terms of sex.
You want to know if I do it? It’s none of your business.
That is personal, okay?
Patience Osakwe
There’s a lot wrong with oral sex but if I must do it,
it must be with my sweetheart. I know for a fact that some
like it while others don’t but I don’t know why.
One thing I am sure of is that a lot of ladies find it hard
to do.
Lucy Chima
I don’t see anything wrong in it. I feel it is a sexual
preference, which is subject to individual choices. I have
not done it before and I don’t know if I can do it.
Sodiq Kudirat
It depends. For those who practice oral sex, it has to be
mutual because the trust must be there. Some ladies do it
while others who are scared of doing it are afraid of picking
up infections or something like that. For those who do it,
I am sure they trust their respective partners.
Tope Aseperi
Ah, there are so many things wrong with oral sex. You could
contract diseases. Having oral sex is like having sex without
condom or protection. It is not good. For me, I do not buy
the idea. It is unbiblical. It is bad for a guy to have oral
sex with a lady. Some are quite addicted to it, to the extent
that without it, they don’t feel the passion that comes
with sex. As for me, I can’t do it. What if the guy’s
thing is too long and the lady finds out too late. If you’re
dealing with a guy with a long sex organ, it could be hurting.
A lot of people who do it just follow the crowd. They want
to be seen to be doing things most people are doing.
Lolade Oginni
It is not absolutely wrong but it is not ideal as you can
contract diseases from it because you are not protecting yourself
in any way. There is skin contact and that is dangerous. This
makes one prone to all sorts of viruses and bacteria. Once
there’s a problem, you will need some serious medical
attention. If the guy involved likes it, I still don’t
think I would do it. There are reasons for this. For instance,
he could be cheating and God help you if he goes ahead and
has oral sex with you. He would obviously have all sorts of
things in him.
Bukky Olagunju
I don’t think I can enjoy sex without oral sex. Under
normal circumstance, oral sex should precede the real thing.
Any act of lovemaking that does not start with oral sex is
incomplete as far as I am concerned.
Maria Adekunle
It is only mad men that make love to their girl friends without
oral sex. Oral sex takes me to the peak. I feel so dissolved,
lubricated and ready for action. I think oral sex is very
important in lovemaking. Every sensible girl should ask and
insist on it before she agrees to do anything with a guy.
Grace Andrew
Oral sex is a thing of importance in lovemaking. My guy has
been able to stick to me because of it. He loves and enjoys
it so much that he feels and knows that I am the only lady
that can satisfy him in bed. In fact, 90 per cent of males
and females in a relationship engage themselves in oral sex.
It is a stepping stone to lovemaking.
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