Sex on Val’s Day?
By Samod Biobaku
Sunday, February 10, 2008

•Pelumi Adekunbi
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Pelumi Adekunbi
Of course we can have sex on that day depending on our mood. We could have a night in or a night out but I think a night in would be preferable. It’s important to prepare a surprise for him. If it happens that I’m not too financially buoyant, I can get him a red wine and another item he really likes.

This is just the beginning. I would continue by getting a brand new Celine Dion collection with blue candles to light up the room. After dinner, we’ll most likely dine on the bed as well. The truth is that it’s going to be a very memorable Valentine’s Day for both of us.

I’ll make the room as romantic as possible with red roses and other decorations in the bedroom. I could even splash some of the roses on the floor of the bedroom and the bed as well. Another song I’d really like for an occasion like that is the Boyz II Men song titled: ‘I’ll Make Love to You.’ I’ll tell him to relax so that he can have the time of his life. There’ll also be exchange of gifts at the end of the day.

Anuoluwapo
Leave me alone jare. I’m not answering any question. Ma ko ba mi (meaning in Yoruba language, don’t put me in trouble).

Esther Oluwagbemisola
Valentine’s Day is better enjoyed in the evening. You should go out to a romantic place like the beach, feel the cool breeze and have fun. We must also remember that it must be with someone you really care about.

Jumoke Adeniyi Rukayat
That’s a good question. One thing I’ve noticed is that on Valentine’s Day, a whole lot of people want to go out, eat and have fun but for me, we’re going to spend a lion share of our time indoor and talk to each other. February 14 should be a day for reflection when you should correct and work on your relationship. Later in the day, we can go out and have some fun.

Oluyemi Oluwabukola
(Smiles) Well, I see Valentine’s Day as a day for couples. One should spend the day going out to places where you can have a nice time. You can also visit friends. It shouldn’t be for lovers alone. Later in the day, you can go home, play and be happy. As the evening wears on, you can come closer, hug, kiss and cuddle and not necessarily have sex. If I’m not married to a man, I can’t imagine sleeping at his house. Married people tend to enjoy Valentine’s Day more than those who are still dating because they’ll have enough time for each other. One basic truth is that, for lovers who are really in love, everyday should be as good as Val’s Day.

Tolulade Lala
Last year, what I had was a bit romantic. I prepared fried rice and salad for him. We talked back and forth into our relationship. Later on, we had cake and topped it with a bottle of wine. We played a lot of cool music and had fun. We also shared our feelings about the relationship. Valentine’s Day shouldn’t be about going out alone. Nothing can be more romantic than staying indoors.

Benedicta Obi
As far as I’m concerned, that day is an outdoor day. I’d love to go out eating, dancing and catching fun with friends. I’m going to spend this one with my friends in Ikorodu. I know my sweetheart will miss me but I’ll keep in touch with him.

Kareem Omotolani
To me, a romantic Valentine’s Day should be spent indoors. You should be indoors with your man so that you can talk about your relationship. If you must go out, it should be later in the day. Then you can visit nice places to enjoy yourselves. Let me leak a secret to you. The place I would really love to be for this year’s Valentine’s Day is the Whistling Palms.

Favour Osagie
It should be a combination of both outdoor and indoor. When indoor, we’ll talk about emotional things and ways to move forward with the relationship. We’ll also eat, play lots of romantic songs and later go out to catch fun. We can go to one or two places as long as they’re not rowdy. Look, I don’t attach much importance to Valentine’s Day because I feel most of all these love songs are laced with lies.

Tolulope Adegoke
I prefer being indoors because we would be together. We’ll eat, talk about the past, dance and discuss the future in an attempt to rediscover our love for each other. Thereafter, we can get close up. In all honesty, I don’t really like going out that much.

Bola Olanrewaju
Of course, I should be with him. We’ll go out and spend quality time together. We could also be indoors. It depends. We’ll talk, hold ourselves and would be in his arms. We’ll eat indoor, listen to a variety of slow music. I don’t think we have to dance to make Valentine’s Day complete.


 

 

 

 

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