Girl friend dates your
man?
By Samod Biobaku
Sunday, January
13, 2008
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•Ife
Ogunlana
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Ife Ogunlana
That’s a very bad thing. What makes it terrible is the
fact that he’s doing it with my best friend. It could
have been any other person but why my best friend? There’s
nothing I can do because you can’t possibly force a
guy to love you. I’ll accept my fate and sever my relationship
with both of them. How can my best friend take away my happiness
and still expect to remain my best friend?
Tinuola Joseph
Ha! The first thing that would come to my mind would be to
kill the guy. However, it requires a critical examination.
Firstly, if it’s something I heard about, I’ll
ask them. I know they’ll most likely deny but I’ll
ask anyway. If on the other hand, I catch them, I won’t
talk to any of them again. I can’t fight for a guy who
sleeps with my best friend. It doesn’t make much sense
to me.
Ebun Bakare
Hey! I’ll be shocked. At first, I wouldn’t know
what to do. My best friend? I might be tempted to kill her
because I would be confused. I would ask myself all sorts
of questions. For instance, how and when did it happen? If
I heard about it, I wouldn’t believe it because it’s
pure madness. However, I would consult both of them and if
I catch them red handed, none of them should ever attempt
to cross my path because if they do, anything can happen o.
if I keep seeing them, I might be tempted to destroy their
lives.
Anonymous
I won’t tell you my name because it actually happened
to me. I’m a married woman and had a very good friend
who wined and dined with my family. I was shocked to discover
that she seduced and slept with my husband. After a while,
she began to avoid me. It was simply unbelievable. The bad
thing was that before it happened, we were very close. I told
her all my secrets. Since then, I’ve learnt never to
trust anybody. Now, you understand why I can’t tell
you my name.
Bunmi Rosulu
I’ll accept my fate and leave them to each other. I
know it’s easier said than done but that’s what
I would do. If he really loves me, he would come back to me.
If there’s room for amendment, we can still be friends
but if not, I won’t hesitate to let her go.
Olayemi Aregbesola
What a question! I won’t take it easy with her because
she’s supposed to be my best friend and not a judas.
How can she do that and expect to get away with it? After
all, she knows I’m dating the guy. I can no longer see
such a person as friend. What if I were married to the man
in question? She would most likely do the same thing. I’ll
let her go with the man. I can never marry such a man because
he’ll most likely do it again and again.
Motunrayo Badmus
It’s a very bad thing when a woman begins to fight over
a man. Things could go very awry. Good riddance to bad rubbish
because I know they’ll both regret it. If I find out,
it means our friendship has come to an end with immediate
effect. If after a while, he returns to his senses and comes
begging, I would gladly tell him to hit the road.
Idowu Obafemi
I’ll keep my distance from both of them. I wouldn’t
fight over such a man because he’s not worth it. No
more friendship with my pal because she has obviously betrayed
me. Of all people, he’s the last person I would expect
to do a thing like that.
Tolulope Tinubu
Oh my God, I would be shocked. The best thing to do is to
stay away from both of them. If they come back to apologise,
I might or might not accept their apologies. Such a guy is
not worth my time but if I love him, I’ll look inward
to find out if there’s anything I’m not doing
well.
Temitope Onifade
What do you expect me to do in such a situation? You don’t
expect me to kill them, do you? The truth of the matter is
that, for each of us, life must continue. |
