How often do you make love?
By Samod Biobaku & Adesua Buhari
Sunday, January 20, 2008

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Rasheedat Alejo
For those who are not married, I personally feel that they should refrain from sex. They can kiss, smooch and all that, as much as they like, but they should not go as far as having sex because once it happens, it becomes too pleasurable to quit. However, for a couple, they can do it as much as they like, even if it’s ten times a day (laughs)

Abiola Salau
If those involved are into the boyfriend/girlfriend kind of relationship, then having sex twice a week should suffice. If on the other hand, they are married, then they can have it as often as possible. They’re legally married for crying out loud. So they’re free to have all the sex they want. However, it shouldn’t be a one-sided sex where one person enjoys while the other dies in silence. That would be cruel!

Folake Mustapha
If they’re not yet married, they shouldn’t have sex more than twice a week. That’s what I consider ideal. However, if they’re married, they can do it everyday if they’re up to the task. They can do it anytime and anywhere; in the bathroom, in the kitchen, in the pool or even in the living room. It depends on their preference. The feeling must however be mutual.

Nike
Ah! As long as they are married, they can do it anytime they want; even if it’s everyday. They’re free to do it as often as they desire.

Patience Osakwe
If the guy and the babe are still dating, then the frequency of sex should be restricted but the general thing is that it’s a thing of the mind. When it comes to sex, anything can happen at anytime especially when they’re married.

Fatima Wasiu
If the relationship is a boyfriend and girlfriend type, they can get down once a week but after they legalise their relationship by getting married, they can have it as much as three times a week.

Pelumi Adekunbi
As long as they’re not yet married, they shouldn’t have sex at all. However, the moment they get married, they are free to do it as many times as possible, as long as they have the strength. If the man wants it five times a day, he deserves it after waiting for so long. For a man like that, the woman must satisfy him so that he is not tempted to play away match.

Hope Nwankwo
If it’s a boyfriend and girlfriend type of relationship, they have to reach an agreement. I remember that even when I still had a boyfriend, I never made a habit of going to his place all the time. Is sex food? If, however, they’re a couple, it’s good for them to have sex as often as they desire because it’s important. If they can do it everyday (especially at night), so be it.

Olaitan Olayide
If they’re not married, they should wait till they’re married. Better still, they could do it once to confirm the man’s potency. For the married people, it depends on their attitude to sex and appetite. They can do it as often as they wish.

Tolu Akinrinde
As long as they’re married, there’s nothing bad in the couple having sex everyday. Unfortunately for them, if they’re not married, then they must abstain (from sex). They shouldn’t do it. For me, no marriage, no show! That should be the principle. If he really loves me, he’ll wait. We can cuddle and do all that, but definetely not sex. He should hang on till we’re married. The sensible thing to do with a guy in that situation is to avoid being alone with him at certain times so that you don’t get carried away.

Titi Quadri
If they’re married, they should have it everyday to avoid a situation where the guy has to go out for it. If they’re just dating and not yet married, they can have it anytime they’re in the mood.

Folake Agbaminoja
If they’re still dating, it depends on their sexual desire and how close they are. If they’re very close, the sexual chemistry will always come to play. If on the other hand, they’re married, the frequency will be decided by their mood and whether they feel like doing it or not. The only troubled spot is if they’re not married yet because we all remember that the Bible is against premarital sex.

Ayobamidele Atinuke
I personally don’t support premarital sex. The Bible doesn’t support it but we must be very realistic. Sometimes, the situation might warrant it to happen probably once a week. I must make it very clear that if it must happen at all, then it must be with reasonable protection. However, if those involved are married, they can do it anytime and anywhere, even if she’s cooking in the kitchen.


 

 

 

 

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