How often do you make love?
By Samod Biobaku & Adesua Buhari
Sunday, January
20, 2008
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Rasheedat Alejo
For those who are not married, I personally feel that they
should refrain from sex. They can kiss, smooch and all that,
as much as they like, but they should not go as far as having
sex because once it happens, it becomes too pleasurable to
quit. However, for a couple, they can do it as much as they
like, even if it’s ten times a day (laughs)
Abiola Salau
If those involved are into the boyfriend/girlfriend kind of
relationship, then having sex twice a week should suffice.
If on the other hand, they are married, then they can have
it as often as possible. They’re legally married for
crying out loud. So they’re free to have all the sex
they want. However, it shouldn’t be a one-sided sex
where one person enjoys while the other dies in silence. That
would be cruel!
Folake Mustapha
If they’re not yet married, they shouldn’t have
sex more than twice a week. That’s what I consider ideal.
However, if they’re married, they can do it everyday
if they’re up to the task. They can do it anytime and
anywhere; in the bathroom, in the kitchen, in the pool or
even in the living room. It depends on their preference. The
feeling must however be mutual.
Nike
Ah! As long as they are married, they can do it anytime they
want; even if it’s everyday. They’re free to do
it as often as they desire.
Patience Osakwe
If the guy and the babe are still dating, then the frequency
of sex should be restricted but the general thing is that
it’s a thing of the mind. When it comes to sex, anything
can happen at anytime especially when they’re married.
Fatima Wasiu
If the relationship is a boyfriend and girlfriend type, they
can get down once a week but after they legalise their relationship
by getting married, they can have it as much as three times
a week.
Pelumi Adekunbi
As long as they’re not yet married, they shouldn’t
have sex at all. However, the moment they get married, they
are free to do it as many times as possible, as long as they
have the strength. If the man wants it five times a day, he
deserves it after waiting for so long. For a man like that,
the woman must satisfy him so that he is not tempted to play
away match.
Hope Nwankwo
If it’s a boyfriend and girlfriend type of relationship,
they have to reach an agreement. I remember that even when
I still had a boyfriend, I never made a habit of going to
his place all the time. Is sex food? If, however, they’re
a couple, it’s good for them to have sex as often as
they desire because it’s important. If they can do it
everyday (especially at night), so be it.
Olaitan Olayide
If they’re not married, they should wait till they’re
married. Better still, they could do it once to confirm the
man’s potency. For the married people, it depends on
their attitude to sex and appetite. They can do it as often
as they wish.
Tolu Akinrinde
As long as they’re married, there’s nothing bad
in the couple having sex everyday. Unfortunately for them,
if they’re not married, then they must abstain (from
sex). They shouldn’t do it. For me, no marriage, no
show! That should be the principle. If he really loves me,
he’ll wait. We can cuddle and do all that, but definetely
not sex. He should hang on till we’re married. The sensible
thing to do with a guy in that situation is to avoid being
alone with him at certain times so that you don’t get
carried away.
Titi Quadri
If they’re married, they should have it everyday to
avoid a situation where the guy has to go out for it. If they’re
just dating and not yet married, they can have it anytime
they’re in the mood.
Folake Agbaminoja
If they’re still dating, it depends on their sexual
desire and how close they are. If they’re very close,
the sexual chemistry will always come to play. If on the other
hand, they’re married, the frequency will be decided
by their mood and whether they feel like doing it or not.
The only troubled spot is if they’re not married yet
because we all remember that the Bible is against premarital
sex.
Ayobamidele Atinuke
I personally don’t support premarital sex. The Bible
doesn’t support it but we must be very realistic. Sometimes,
the situation might warrant it to happen probably once a week.
I must make it very clear that if it must happen at all, then
it must be with reasonable protection. However, if those involved
are married, they can do it anytime and anywhere, even if
she’s cooking in the kitchen. |