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Kuburat Salisu
The first thing you’ll notice is that he’ll start acting strange, different from the way he used to. He’ll also start using his work as an excuse to see less of you or he might tell you he’s not around.

He’ll also start being on the defensive and will get irritated by virtually everything you do. He’ll constantly give convoluted excuses not to see you as much as he used to. To cut the long story short, the love he has for you will begin to wither.

Toke Ademola
You might not believe this but if he’s cheating on me, it would be very glaring for me to see. He’s the outspoken type and hardly keeps to himself.

Temitope Onifade
You might find this ridiculous but I know that my guy is a typical ladies’ delight. I’ve seen this several times. When we’re together and he gets a call from any of his female fans, which is the way I see them, he just picks his call and begins to talk. It’s very rare for him to tell the person to call back to anything like that.

The truth of the matter is that when you shower a guy with the kind of love he craves, he’ll consider you a mighty priority and as such, will place you where you belong – right on top. He might be tempted every now and then but he always tells me about it. That’s the strange part. He tells me everything except for the sex part, which I don’t want to hear anyway. No matter how far he grazes, he always comes back to me. When your man gets distracted by the daughters of eve, it takes the grace of God to steer him back you the right path. God has blessed us with this grace.

Nike
I am not prepared to answer any question. Leave me alone jare!

Mrs Yemisi Olatunji
I will look straight into his eyes when I suspect some strange behaviour he would be portraying and ask him what I feel it is that bothering my mind. A man can do certain things, but if he has the fear of God he would control his actions and focus on the right things.

Ifeanyiwa Okojiaka
First, I will say a special prayer before I even discuss anything with him. If his reactions were unnecessary then I would start watching closely if I can nail him down with a more tangible proof.

Mrs Fatima Hassan-Danko
I cannot really tell if I can notice when he is being unfaithful, I am a busy person a times and it takes a whole lot of time to follow him up, but I do pray that no sort of temptation can make him go astray.

Eghosa
I know I can tell if my man is being unfaithful to me very easily because he is not a good liar. He makes his face like a big baby when he is not doing something pure in the relationship and I simply ask him to tell me the truth if I suspect something unusual about his attitude.

Mrs Chioma Peters
If my man steps out to be unfaithful to me I will put everything into God’s hands so that he can control my man’s heart for me and allow him to think of the love he has for me. A man will definitely be a man but it takes the special grace of God to guide their minds. It will break my heart dearly if I find out he is being the unfaithful type of man, so I pray I don’t have to go through such an experience.

Mrs Maureen Jack
If I get to know he is playing some funny games behind my back, I will go out and find out who the slot is and make sure I scatter whatever it is they are having together. Man body they say; no be wood’ but he has to learn how to keep his trousers up and face what he has already and make it work.

Bisi Cole
If I get to know he is unfaithful I would look for a conducive environment and have special dialogue and seek for his opinion on what I feel he should know if truly I find out he is not faithful to me. I will not threaten him but simply tell him the cost of loosing me if eventually anything as such happens.

Rita
I don’t really know if I can easily find out except he gives me the reason to suspect any foul play. I have learnt to trust and not doubt him. That, I believe, can discourage him from cheating on me.

Frances Dickson
I love my man very much and if he does anything to hurt my feelings by having something to do with someonelse, it will be a terrible encounter because l trust him with all my heart and can do anything to keep him all to myself if possible.

Pemi Ajayi
He’ll start finding faults in anything you do. He’ll start to whine over little things. If my boyfriend has been very good to me and all of a sudden he changes, I’ll definitely suspect foul play. He’ll no longer call regularly. It might take time to discover.

Rebecca Adeoba
The truth of the matter is that you can’t be 100 per cent sure. You’ll only see the signs. If you’re the type that is not very close to the guy, it would be harder for you. However, if you’re very close to him, you’ll know through some signs such as eye contact for instance. He might also stop doing certain things he used to do such as giving you compliments and going on dates with you. There’ll also be a change of attitude and this cuts across everything associated with him. I’m talking about the phone calls, the starange numbers and the way he begins to pick up his calls. If he’s cheating on you, he could start receiving calls in the kitchen or he might tell the person to call back later. There’ll be lots of coded calls.

Tope Aseperi
If he used to call you often, the frequency would reduce. You’ll also realise that when he calls you, he makes it snappy. If you confront him, he might begin to shout at you. He’ll also begin to code his calls and he’ll not be as open as he used to be with you. He might start finding faults in almost everyhting you do. If you’re still single, you won’t see him as much as you used to. He might also systematically restrict you from getting very close to him friends and family.

Titi Vera-Cruz
He’ll definitely start acting strange. You should also expect him to give you lots of flimsy excuses for not doing some of the things he used to do freely in the past. If he has conscience, he might also find it difficult to look you straigth in the eyes. The rate at which he calls you will also drop. On the other hand, he might keep calling and uses that as an alibi to keep his distance from you.