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Mayowa Obafemi
Ko ni funny o (it won’t be funny o). I’ll just end the show on the spot. That’s it o’ Straight up. For him to have called someone else’s name, he’s obviously cheating on me. That’s bad enough. He has to tell me the real story and where the name came from. I’ll confront him right there and then. He’ll beg me but I won’t respond to him. Breaking up? It depends on how much I love the person. At the end, I might give him a second chance. If we’re married and he does that, he won’t find it funny at all. It’s bad o. It’s a very crazy thing to do.

Bola
I would stop and let him realise that’s not my name. I’ll stop because there’s no point continuing with the act anymore. I know he would try to explain but as far as I’m concerned, there’s nothing to explain. The harm has been done. I’ll ask him point blank to explain why he had to go as far as mentioning another woman’s name. By calling another woman’s name, he has obviously crossed the limits of decency.

Kehinde
I’ll ask him for the story and details behind the name he mentioned in bed. He would most likely lie and I would be really angry about it. I might forgive him but it would take a while. What he did is very bad and should even attract stiffer sanctions. If he doesn’t tell me the true identity of the girl whose name he mentioned, I’ll tell him our relationship has come to an end. If I must forgive him, it would take like a week or more.

Iyabo Biobaku
I’ll push him off and I would most likely give him a slap. A lot f peple might see me as being too harsh but what he did is grossly unforgivable. On the other hand, I might act as if I never heard it and retaliate. By retaliation, I mean, I would also start moaning and whisper another man’s name into his ears. I’ll start saying ‘Tunde…T…u…n…d…e’ or ‘T…h…o…m…p…s…o…n’ By doing that he’s definitely get the message. I’ll eventually sit him down and confront him on the issue but the truth of the matter is that he’ll most likely deny and lie about the whole thing. Guys tell a whole lot of lies. It also shows that he’s cheating on me.

Tolu Oke
If I ever catch my guy mentioning another name instead of mine; probably a Moji or an Amaka, I won’t take it easy with him at all. Firstly, I’ll push him off instantly. Thereafter, he must tell me the genesis of the name he mentioned when he was carried away. I’ll be very crossed with him and I’ll be extremely annoyed. I won’t be happy with him at all. It is at times like that that I wish I was god in martial arts. If I can beat him up, then you can be very sure that I would enjoy giving him a pounding right there and then. I’ll gladly pull some Jackie Chan stunts on him. To be very candid, I’ll be mad at him. It shows he doesn’t respect me. There’s a very high tendency that he won’t tell the truth even when I confront him. He’ll look for an excuse. That I know for sure. I won’t allow him continue because what he did shows he’s been sleeping around, which shows he’s not faithful to me. I strongly believe in remaining faithful to one man at a time. I might forgive him but what do you think such a guy would become after marrying him. After forgiving him, he’ll most likely do it again. When you begin to give room for things like that, it’s bad. I can’t accept a thing like that. If I don’t know, it’s ok but if I do, that’s the end of the relationship. I can’t stand it.

Tope Onifade
I just hope you won’t put me in trouble with this question o. I’ll push him off because it’s very upsetting. I don’t have to break up the relationship because of that. I don’t quit relationships that way. I believe in making amends where necessary. Hopping from one guy to another isn’t the best. I don’t need to start punishing him. These are matured minds so it’s unnecessary. I might just do something nasty.

Kuburat
Ah! I’ll be shocked and the act will come to a halt. I’ll tell him to explain the details of his slip of tongue. I’ll tell him to stop and ask him for explanations. It shows he’s having an affair so I’ll confront him with it and I expect him to tell me the truth. I’ll forgive him but it would take some time. I won’t go as far as breaking up the relationship. That isn’t the best thing to do under the circumstance. To err is human.

Rasheedat
Ah! What kind of question is this? Why don’t you ask me about the weather? Don’t put me in trouble o. We’ll stop immediately and confront him afterwards when I must have gotten myself together. He owes me a massive explanation because he knows exactly what he has done wrong. I expect him to confess to me. I don’t think I can break up my marriage because of that. I can’t break up a relationship because of that because I won’t be making love with my boyfriend anyway. I’ll later forgive him and reconcile.

Shakirat Hammed
We’ll stop what we’re doing immediately because I’ll be very angry. I’ll ask for an explanation later on. He has to explain. Whether I would punish him or not depends on his explanation but to be honest, any man who does that deserves to be punished. I don’t think I can break up the relationship because of that. If I really love him, I’ll forgive him and I’ll expect him to make amends.

Sophiat
Ha! Can I answer this kind of question? Well, I’ll get up and ask him to go and meet the lady whose name has been mentioned. I’ll get really pissed off. I don’t need to break up with him. When I confront him, I expect an explanation. If he confesses, he has to assure me that such a thing would never happen again.