Recipe for old age – Bimbola Johnson
By Agatha Emeadi
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
 |
•Ms. Johnson
Photo: Sun News Publishing |
| |
Ms Bimbola Johnson is not a name that rings a bell because
she is not the type that graces pages of newspapers and magazines.
But mention B-JAY’s hotel on the island, many will quickly
nod their head in recognition.
You now wonder why she has broken the jinx, Yes, Johnson is
part of a committee that says retirees and senior citizens
should not spend their last days and years in misery, penury,
agony and bitterness, rather it should be spent where worries
of the home maintenance, security, safety and more importantly
a caring healthcare known as ‘GLORYLAND Trust International’.
In an interview with her recently at her five-star hotel,
Johnson who is a founding member tells you “Glory land
is a great community for the senior citizens, a private age
considerate community for our older citizens after retirement.
It is also a community inspired by the need to alleviate the
mundane problems and struggles of the day-to-day life for
the aged. Gloryland fosters tranquil and pleasurable living
ensuring that an aged life is lived with a purpose. It is
a great community for the elderly, a neighborhood planned
to house diverse-income earners and a solution to age care
perennial challenges to the society”.
Ms. Johnson, a sister to former Governor of Lagos state, Sir
Mobolaji Johnson revealed that Gloryland is fashioned after
the type of homes she saw while living and touring in developed
countries. The essense of establishing a home away from home
is for the retirees and senior citizens to be together and
have some fond memories before their final call. It is a community
inspired by the need to alleviate the mundane problems and
struggles of day-to-day life for the aged and it is a place
to enrich the lives of the elderly in delightful and companionable
subsistence.
Going round, you find out that some old people who have put
in all their lives training children and acquiring properties
are no longer happy the way they are going through old age.
Some have derailed just because they have no companion of
their ages.
She agrees that yes, the family is important but old school
mates, old friends are equally important, aged people seems
to come alive and respond better when they meet again years
after loosing contact.
Still creating the awareness, she drew the message home when
she added, “when an old person is seen outside walking
under the rays of early morning vitamin ‘D’, it
becomes strange and sacrilegious. Instead of admiring the
old personality, what follows that sight are questions like:
“What are you doing outside? Won’t you go and
stay at home.”
When an aged person is no longer useful financially or cannot
run around for household chores, his or her sight even among
some of his or her relatives becomes irritating and embarrassing.
In most cases they are restricted to a permanent room where
no visitors sees them
To her, the treatment the society meets to its senior citizens
can gradually send one to an early grave. In a fierce look
she asked angrily “Imagine citizens who have put in
their lives working for one organization or the other, the
ones that did not die on the job manages to live without wages
.
When you see them queuing up for their pension and gratuity,
you are ashamed of a country like this” she did not
stop at that.
The vision of Gloryland according to Johnson is to foster
tranquil and pleasurable living, ensuring that an aged life
is lived with a purpose. It is no longer news to say we have
no security, there is no pipe-borne water, and there is no
electricity. You can count how many great citizens of this
country that lost their lives carelessly and no one has traced
their killers till date.
These she considers as challenges facing the old people. Again
the dynamics of modern life has affected the structure of
the Nigerian family culture whereby children stay around to
care for their aged parents. It is also an established fact
that the loyalty and interdependence between the homeowner
house help has now evaporated. The lack of, and irregularity
of pension payments and income have relegated many retirees
to penury. The feebleness of ageing affects their performing
basic health maintenance tasked becomes a challenge due to
the inevitable ageing process.
Ask her what informed their opinion to establish this type
of project. Ms Johnson recalled a horrible experience as an
8year old girl that her mother sent to an errand two streets
away from theirs.
“Whenever I am asked this question, an experience of
many decades ago comes to my mind she says. “My late
mother then sent me on errand, two streets away from ours
then here in Lagos, I saw a little crowd that surrounded a
middle aged haggard looking woman who had the olden days braid
known as didi on her hair with grey eye-lead and wrapper tied
across her chest. A few people had gathered around her and
the number of people kept increasing. Questions were being
thrown at her from all angles.
Who are you? Where are you coming from? Why can’t you
get home?
Another voice came from the background, maybe she is a witch
and have missed her way. The next thing I saw was stones started
flying to her direction, one landed on her forehead and blood
spread out with speed. I ran away”.
To her, that could have been an innocent citizen who is suffering
from senile dementia. She was mistaken for witchcraft and
she met her untimely death just like that.
She also remembered another incident of a known person that
came visiting their late father then but could not find his
way back home, he rigmarole the entire neighborhood until
he was assisted home. These are all effects of lack of care.
If these two individuals had caring and loving families, would
they have become victims of negligence?
Even though she has tried her hands on one or two charitable
organizations at the clubs where she belonged, Johnson strongly
believes that she will not be fulfilled without putting heads
together to raise a place like ‘Gloryland’, where
people who are retired from active functions as teachers,
doctors, public servants, business owners and farmers will
be.
The proposed site rests on a 300 acre community in serene
atmospheric Abeokuta which will have facilities like fitness
centers, parks and gardens, farm plots and Hobby shop. Others
include computer centre, Cinemas shows, library, flower gardens,
restaurants, interfaith chapel and mosque. Its is open to
all tribes and all religious. According to her, Gloryland
will spread through all the state in the federation in due
course.
For now that the financial supports comes from individuals
while the government is expected to lend support, initial
occupants will experience what the initial purchasers of mobile
phone 090 experienced. But today mobile phones are within
the reach of all.
Make
N450,000 Online Monthly. Click Here |