Yejide Alo: She studied
Urban & Regional Planning, now she plans young people’s
lives
By THERESA ONWUGHALU
Tuesday, October
2, 2007
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•Yejide
Alo
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Young, promising Yejide Christianah Alo from Ekiti State
is a woman of vision. At 27, one would have thought the lady,
who bagged a second class upper division (2-1) in Urban &
Regional Planning, from Obafemi Awolowo University (OAU) in
2005 would be more interested in pursuing a career in her
chosen field.
But no, the third child in a family of four children is passionately
running an empowerment programme for youths, a dream that
she feels must not die. Young Minds Empowerment Initiative
(YMEI), a non-governmental organization is her brainchild
and by October 26, 2007, Yejide would storm the Chiquita Hall,
Akowonjo area of Lagos State with a programme entitled: Awaken
the Giant WithinYou.
As an urban and regional planner, her engagement should be
that of planning of large cities and towns but here she is,
helping young people plan their lives; to expose them to themselves
by discovering their strengths and weaknesses; motivate them
towards continual self-development and improvement through
effective time management; skill identification, goal setting,
decision making and values clarification. Also, she is out
to empower the youths to take charge of their sexuality and
live more effective and fulfilling lives, and to instill in
them basic principles of success and standard ethics in clothing,
communication, character and culture.
According to her, the course she read wasn’t her choice
course. "It wasn’t something that I really wanted
to do in life. My mind had always been with the youths and
how I can help them. That has been my passion for long. You
see, it is only human beings that don’t live 10 per
cent of their potentialities. In a tree, there are a lot of
things to get from it; furniture, medicine, exercise books,
among others. So, human beings too have a lot of potentialities."
For her mission, she said: "If the youths could discover
themselves, channel their career paths right now and understand
how they function as unique individuals, they won’t
make certain mistakes like being pressured by parents to read
courses they don’t want or pressured by peers to do
something that they don’t want to do."
Young Minds Empowerment Initiative (YMEI) was actually conceived
on May 14, 2004, but kicked off in April 2006, at Sapele,
Delta State, where she served as corper. While there, the
UNICEF/ NYSC Peer Education Project on Adolescent Reproductive
Health and HIV/AIDS Awareness, in which she was a volunteer,
made her realize it was entirely safer to establish healthy
patterns of behaviours than changing wrong and risky behaviours
already entrenched.
Yejide was touched by the fact that deficient and purposeless
youths were still roaming the streets, suggesting that something
was lacking and there was need for a change. She was also
touched by the knowledge that more than half of those living
with HIV/AIDS were young people between the ages of 15-24.
She was grieved that these young ones became victims because
they didn’t have the fore knowledge of life building
skills necessary to preserve them.
It was then she realised that she was born to pioneer this
change. She then developed a training manual on self-series
for the young people.
In addition, the statements by Benjamin Disraeli and Bishop
T. D. Jakes that: "The greatest good you can do for another
is not just to share your riches, but to reveal to him his
own" and "The greatest change in the world has been
caused by man and a microphone through effective communication
where the gun and sword have failed to cause wars to cease"
respectively motivate and keep her focussed on this vision.
Therefore, with a vision to raise purpose-driven and well
groomed young individuals, who would fulfill destiny, YMEI
would go a long way in filling the necessary gaps and empowering
the young ones to take full responsibility of their own development.
Quite determined and ready to realize this dream, Yejide organizes
seminars with relevant topics in both private and public secondary
schools and some designated centres, especially in Lagos and
Sapele, where many youths have been positively affected. And
come next month, she would hold such seminar in Lagos. About
500 student-representatives from different schools in Alimosho
Zone 11 LGA are expected at her seminar this month and Fan
Milk, De United Foods, Coca-Cola and Cadbury would be sponsors.
Running and financing this programme has been quite challenging,
she said. "I still wish that I could get funds to sustain
it. I believe it is a dream that will not die. Even if I get
a job with my certificate, I will still carry my dream along.
I can’t abandon or leave it behind . It is a mandate
from God, so, He would make provision for the vision,”
Yejide assured.
Yejide, who lost her dad few years ago, is very grateful to
her mum and other siblings who have contributed immensely
to see her dream come true.
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