From Gyang Bere, Jos
The Deputy Chief Registrar, Court of Appeal, Headquarters Abuja, Kabir Akanbi has lost his wife, Rahmatu Hassan Ahmed Akanbi.
Rahmatu passed on suddenly on March 29, 2022.
Akanbi, who was a deputy chief registrar, Court of Appeal Jos Division, in a tribute to his late wife said her sudden demise has hit him badly, the children, family members, friends and colleagues at work.
He said, “The event leading to the sudden and shocking demise of my beloved wife, was as prosaic as any other. It was just another day or so it seemed. Another culmination of innumerable episodes, where her selfless, unwavering love and constant care shone through the night before. Acts that would make any man quickly remind himself of how lucky he is. Alas! That esurient guest, death!!! Struck.
“The 29th day of March, 2022 is not a day to be forgotten in a hurry. It is the saddest day of my life. On this day, I lost a woman who meant everything to me. My beloved wife, Rahmatu Hassan Ahmed Akanbi otherwise known as Uwa by close family members and friends, and HAR by professional colleagues.
“In over a decade of marriage, our home was our haven; It was as the late sage Chief Obafemi Awolowo had described it :“A place of happiness, of imperturbable seclusion from the buffeting of life”. The common denominator need not be searched for: it was a good wife. Indeed like H.I.D like HAR.
“Through the unending vicissitude of each day of those years, through the changing scenes and seasons, her love for me was unconditional as it was changeless and constant as a northern star.
“It is difficult to say who her demise hit the most: my humble self, the children, the family members, friends or colleagues at work. Her sudden demise has no doubt left a gaping hole in the hearts of all those close to her. As I was constantly reminded, the loss is not mine alone.”
Akanbi explained that late Rahmatu was not just a wife, but his best friend and a good mother.
“She was the Zinariyan Nasarawa, “Zinariya” means “Gold”. My wife had a heart of Gold. She effectively played the role of friend, a confidant, a role model and a mother. She practically directed my affairs and that of the family. She was my Chief of Staff. Rahmatu was my Jewel of inestimable value.
“The pains caused by her death, can only be best imagined. It can never be described in words. Aptly put by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow in the poem “A Psalm Life” “Lives of great men all remind us, we can make our lives sublime. And, departing, leave behind us footprint on the sands of time”.
He said she left an indelible prints on the sands of time while her physical death robbed the kids and I the opportunity of seeing her again but said Death did not rob them of her eternal love.
” In my grief, my tears give testimony to the love I have for her. Our love was our bond, and death could not break it.
The grief and pain is unbearable for everyone of us, she left behind. More so, her sudden death further confirms the brevity of life.
,”Now I know better, that life should not be taken for granted. Like Perseus answered boldly in the Heroes: “Better to die in the flower of youth, on the chance of winning a noble name, than to live at ease like the sheep and die unloved and unrenowned”.
He said her humility, kindness, compassion and hospitable nature, certainly endeared her to many as the Bar and Bench honored her, by paying their respect to the family.
” The Legal profession lost one of its own. She was a rare gem and a silent achiever. From the testimonies around, I was once again proud to be her husband. All the Heads of Court in the Federal Judiciary and the Heads of the various agencies under the Judiciary, without any exception, had good testimonies of her.
The Chief Justice of Nigeria, her direct boss, Hon. Justice Tanko Mohammed, spoke glowingly about her when he visited the family.
His words, “Rahmatu is one person nobody has ever come to report to me or said anything untowards about”.
The President of the Court Of Appeal Hon. Justice Monica Dongban-Mensem had good words for her. Her Lordship, gave all the needed support to the family. In fact, she stepped into the shoes of a worthy mother.
Hon. Justice B. B. Kanyip, the President of the National Industrial Court, described her thus; “Late Rahmatu was known in her lifetime as a loving, caring, industrious, tolerant, compassionate, devout wife and mother. She was an epitome of humility and love. The late Rahmatu Hassan was a selfless, honourable, affable and good-natured woman”.
President of the Bar Mr. Olumide Akpata, when he joined the family to break the Ramadan fast said her brief sojourn to the world was quite impactful.
Rahmatu passed on suddenly on March 29, 2022.
Akanbi, who was a deputy chief registrar, Court of Appeal Jos Division, in a tribute to his late wife said her sudden demise has hit him badly, the children, family members, friends and colleagues at work.
He said, “The event leading to the sudden and shocking demise of my beloved wife, was as prosaic as any other. It was just another day or so it seemed. Another culmination of innumerable episodes, where her selfless, unwavering love and constant care shone through the night before. Acts that would make any man quickly remind himself of how lucky he is. Alas! That esurient guest, death!!! Struck.
“The 29th day of March, 2022 is not a day to be forgotten in a hurry. It is the saddest day of my life. On this day, I lost a woman who meant everything to me. My beloved wife, Rahmatu Hassan Ahmed Akanbi otherwise known as Uwa by close family members and friends, and HAR by professional colleagues.
“In over a decade of marriage, our home was our haven; It was as the late sage Chief Obafemi Awolowo had described it :“A place of happiness, of imperturbable seclusion from the buffeting of life”. The common denominator need not be searched for: it was a good wife. Indeed like H.I.D like HAR.
“Through the unending vicissitude of each day of those years, through the changing scenes and seasons, her love for me was unconditional as it was changeless and constant as a northern star.
“It is difficult to say who her demise hit the most: my humble self, the children, the family members, friends or colleagues at work. Her sudden demise has no doubt left a gaping hole in the hearts of all those close to her. As I was constantly reminded, the loss is not mine alone.”
Akanbi explained that late Rahmatu was not just a wife, but his best friend and a good mother.
“She was the Zinariyan Nasarawa, “Zinariya” means “Gold”. My wife had a heart of Gold. She effectively played the role of friend, a confidant, a role model and a mother. She practically directed my affairs and that of the family. She was my Chief of Staff. Rahmatu was my Jewel of inestimable value.
“The pains caused by her death, can only be best imagined. It can never be described in words. Aptly put by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow in the poem “A Psalm Life” “Lives of great men all remind us, we can make our lives sublime. And, departing, leave behind us footprint on the sands of time”.
He said she left an indelible prints on the sands of time while her physical death robbed the kids and I the opportunity of seeing her again but said Death did not rob them of her eternal love.
” In my grief, my tears give testimony to the love I have for her. Our love was our bond, and death could not break it.
The grief and pain is unbearable for everyone of us, she left behind. More so, her sudden death further confirms the brevity of life.
,”Now I know better, that life should not be taken for granted. Like Perseus answered boldly in the Heroes: “Better to die in the flower of youth, on the chance of winning a noble name, than to live at ease like the sheep and die unloved and unrenowned”.
He said her humility, kindness, compassion and hospitable nature, certainly endeared her to many as the Bar and Bench honored her, by paying their respect to the family.
” The Legal profession lost one of its own. She was a rare gem and a silent achiever. From the testimonies around, I was once again proud to be her husband. All the Heads of Court in the Federal Judiciary and the Heads of the various agencies under the Judiciary, without any exception, had good testimonies of her.
The Chief Justice of Nigeria, her direct boss, Hon. Justice Tanko Mohammed, spoke glowingly about her when he visited the family.
His words, “Rahmatu is one person nobody has ever come to report to me or said anything untowards about”.
The President of the Court Of Appeal Hon. Justice Monica Dongban-Mensem had good words for her. Her Lordship, gave all the needed support to the family. In fact, she stepped into the shoes of a worthy mother.
Hon. Justice B. B. Kanyip, the President of the National Industrial Court, described her thus; “Late Rahmatu was known in her lifetime as a loving, caring, industrious, tolerant, compassionate, devout wife and mother. She was an epitome of humility and love. The late Rahmatu Hassan was a selfless, honourable, affable and good-natured woman”.
President of the Bar Mr. Olumide Akpata, when he joined the family to break the Ramadan fast said her brief sojourn to the world was quite impactful.