Many men are failing in their duties to give their women maximum sexual satisfaction. They don’t know how to make their women reach orgasm and yet they are wondering why these women are cranky all the time.
If you are among the men who think that sex means having an erection, sliding into your woman’s oil rig and exiting, then this article is for you. You need to learn the art of love making so as to enjoy communion time with your wife. A woman who enjoys orgasms is a happy woman. This is a secret many men don’t know.
Besides the vagina, butt, and breasts, there are some other areas that can arouse women and make them desire you more and more. Men should know what these areas are because women can sense pleasure all over their body. You can step up your bedroom game by touching these areas as foreplay or to relax your girl after a hard day at work.
What men should know is that there’s more to sex than kissing, caressing, sucking, penis and vagina. A woman’s clitoris is a wonderful thing. It is more of an iceberg than a button, it’s only partially visible, and it packs the same number of sensory nerve endings as the penis into an organ just one-tenth the size.
You are probably aware that the nipple is also an erogenous zone for both men and women. But now let’s talk about those less-obvious spots you should be touching but may be neglecting.
Here are areas you should lavish a little extra attention on during sex:
The underside of her butt
The place where your thigh turns into your butt is for more than showing off under the hem of those denim booty shorts you thought were so hot. It’s a nerve-rich area, too, and stimulating it can make for sexy foreplay. Instead of diving straight for your woman’s clit and giving her oral treatment, you can trace one finger along it, or try to light kisses the area and then work your way to vulva territory.
Her under boob
Cleavage is the star of many an outfit, and nipples are endlessly pinched, licked, and sucked, but the under boob goes all but unnoticed. It doesn’t have to be this way. A single finger here can feel amazing. You can also lick this area with a long stroke or in a circular motion to give your woman maximum pleasure. The skin here is super sensitive and receptive to stimulation, and what’s more, it’s so close to two tried-and-true classic erogenous zones — her nipples that they may perk up, too.
The backs of her knees
Another overlooked and nerve-rich area, the backs of her knees might also benefit from some touching, kissing, or licking. To up the stakes, you can drag a tiny ice cube, from the back of your woman’s knee up her body to her more traditional erogenous zones. The slower they go, the more anticipation will build.
Her inner elbows
Light kisses and strokes on the thin skin here is highly suggested. This might feel divine to your woman, or ticklish in some cases, but it’s worth finding out which camp she’s in.
The labia
Yes, her labia are hard to miss, but they are still often ignored. You wouldn’t think of labia as being overlooked, but so many people tend to go straight for the clitoris. Before you do that, though, try teasing the labia to increase excitement. Slowly slide your finger from top to bottom, without parting the lips, then keep going up and down, gradually increasing your pressure until she starts to feel your finger slip inside.
The back of her neck
This is an especially sexy spot, and your woman doesn’t have to be undressed for you to access it. People pay a good amount of attention to the front and sides of the neck, but tend to forget about the back.
The nape of the neck was regarded as very attractive by men in ancient Japan because it was one of the few places on women’s body that were naked. Notice the reaction of your female partner after kissing her lightly on the nape of her neck.
Don’t forget her spine
Place your hand on her shoulder, but don’t be too pushy. Also, you can show you protect her by placing your hand against the small of the back. When alone, kiss or lick her spine and kiss the small of her back to make her crazy for you.