In relationships, couples need to constantly spice things up to keep their relationship exciting especially if they are married for a long time. This is because marriage can be boring if partners stop working at thrilling and satisfying each other.
As a woman, you wield the silent power to get your man eating from the palm of your hands. It doesn’t cost much, you just have to unleash your feminine charm and that’s it. This will make your man keep coming back for more. But how exactly do you do that, you flirt girl!
Just as playing with your husband helps you laugh together, flirting binds you together. It also leads to many sexual moments that get your sheets rolling. The feeling is out of this world.
Set the ball of romance rolling and flirt with your husband like he was a stranger you are bent on seducing with the tips below.
Smile some more
It sounds really simple, but smiling at your husband is the most basic act of flirting. Showing that you enjoy being in his presence can him feel good and attractive. Flash him your teeth and don’t stop looking at him while doing that. Learn to deepen your gaze on him while smiling.
Give him your undivided attention
The amount of time you spend around your husband and the amount you actually spend with him are two different things. Often, it’s easy to get caught up multi-tasking and only half pay attention to what he’s doing or talking about. However, even if it is only for 5 minutes, try giving him your undivided attention and listen to his high school football stories or whatever it is that he likes to talk about that makes him feel special.
Place the whisper
Whispering is the direct opposite of yelling, so it’s no wonder that many men find it a turn-on. Just move closer as if you are trying to get something and whisper some dirty things into his ears, what you give is what you get in this case. Let it be a surprise also. Men love pleasant surprises. Whisper to him what you want to do with his body. Tell him you would love to lick every part of him in low tones. He will run after you immediately.
Catch him off guard
There may not be a lot of surprises left to discover about your husband once you have been married for a while, but you still can surprise him with a little sexiness when he’s not expecting it. Send him a racy email or text message. Send him a picture that leaves him swallowing saliva. Just flirt, he’s all yours and he will race home in no time.
Try role play
If you already have a regular date night with your husband, why not mix things up a bit? Instead of sitting down to dinner at a restaurant like you have done countless times before; why not pretend that it’s your first date? Or meet at a bar and pretend you don’t know each other? Sometimes a little fantasy is all that’s needed to get both of your pulses racing.
Have a secret code phrase
Want to tell him you think he’s hot? Try a secret code phrase, like “Are we due for an oil change?” No one else will know what you really mean but him, so you can say it in front of the kids, in front of your parents, in front of anybody. He gets it and you will get it too.
Grab some flesh
When he’s walking by, smack his butt or hit his shoulder lovingly. Body contacts matters a lot. Touch him everywhere every chance you get. Sexual caresses are essential, but don’t forget about all of the other kinds of touching: playful squeezes, affectionate embraces, and long-lasting hugs on a regular basis will keep your marriage hot.
Ask your husband to choose your panties for the day
If he chooses them, he will be picturing you in nothing but them–all day. This sets the mood for what will happen later. Get ready!
Text your man
Text him about anything–song lyrics, memories of fun times you have had, what you are wearing, what you are thinking about. You are making his heart race for you and your touches.
Flirt in a crowd
Catch your husband’s eye in a crowded room and wink at him. Pass him a note that says you are available and you think he’s cute.