you just met someone who seems just perfect for you. You are on cloud nine and things couldn’t be any better. However, lately you are feeling that something is amiss. You don’t exactly know what, but you keep having those nudging thoughts which tell you something is not right in your paradise.
When you are in a relationship, there are times when you have sneaky suspicions that your partner is seeing someone else behind your back. Sometimes these suspicions may turn out to be true, whereas at times your doubts may not be rooted in reality.
Below are signs that can help you discover if your man is really two-timing you, or if you are just feeling insecure about your relationship.
He takes his phone with him all the time
He does so because he doesn’t want you to see any messages popping up since the content might not be favourable to him. Or he doesn’t let you know his password. And his phone is always on flight mode if he leaves it with you.
He always comes up with a reason to avoid dates
You already know his schedule and you ask him way beforehand but there’s always something urgent that comes up. it’s always “I have something really urgent to attend to. I’ll tell you later.” But he never did.
He lies all the time
He lies about little things and it’s so obvious that he’s lying because the things he tells you just don’t match up. When you try to ask more about it, he either can’t answer because his creativity is running out or he just throws a tantrum, trying to avoid the whole issue. You don’t know why he’s lying, maybe to cover up, maybe out of guilt.
He changes his dressing
Men instinctively change their dressing when they want to attract someone. So when his fashion taste suddenly changes, it is no coincidence. He’s hunting for another woman.
He overreacts when you mention ‘cheating’
When you talk about your friend breaking up because her boyfriend cheated or you try to test him about whether he is cheating, his reaction is huge and abnormal. He either pushes all your accusations back onto you like “you don’t pick up my calls too” and “your lipstick is really bright this day”. Or he tries so hard to gloss over the topic it’s so awkward and he may defend the guy who cheated subconsciously in a way to also see your reaction.
He calls you by the wrong name
He can do this in his dreams or in his blur moment as he claims. But a man who is two-timing you tends to mix up your name with that of his other lover.
He always insists that you both go out somewhere in your area
Well, this may seem like your love is trying to be generous by coming over to your area, instead of asking you to take the trouble of travelling to his/her neighbourhood, it could also be a sign that your partner does not want to take the chance of being spotted with you in their area.
There are more frequent business trips especially over the weekends
Your partner has no time for you because he has been very busy with work and has some important business meetings lined up for the coming week. If this is what your partner tells you every time you want to meet up, don’t easily fall for that. If you know any of his colleagues, find out how true is that without letting your partner know.
He doesn’t bother to call you back
While your sweetheart couldn’t stop calling you earlier, all your communication is now through email or SMS. This could be because your partner doesn’t want someone to overhear when he’s talking to you.
He tries to avoid you with excuses
When we say excuses, we mean related to work or family functions. But when you ask any questions you never get a specific reply for what the meeting or function is about. Perhaps, your lover is out with someone else and not really at work or with family.
He’s always online chatting with someone
If he spends eternity chatting with someone online but the minute you come remotely close to the computer, the window is shut down, something is up. What is it that your partner is trying to hide? Find out!